I got rejected by a girl i really liked.....feel horrible now.....what should i do?

Well for one you should stay friends when her cause you never know she could come around and start to like you. Just give her the time she needs

What does it mean when i find myself Vibrating when i wake up?

It's just a form of hypnogogia, or a waking dream. It could also be sleep paralysis related. But ANYTHING weird that happens as you are waking up or going to sleep has a very likely explanation -- it was sleep/dream related. Other explanations invoking spirits and paranormal are roughly a billion times less likely :)

Help I think I messed up really badly.?

The shelter should not have let you adopt this cat. It is miserable at your house. And your own cat is miserable, also. Some cats, just want to be loners. Cats are not pack animals, like dogs. So, a lot of people only have one cat, and that makes the cat very happy. It's a shame if you are going to make these two cats live together for a YEAR! Find the new cat a new home now, or take it back to the shelter.

I am super shy & insecure, what can I do =(?

Maybe you're just a shy person:) nothing is wrong with that at all!! i used to be shy when i was your age *13 right?* like serrioouussllly shy lol!! but i was insecure! i was bullied because i was skinny, flat chested, AND had braces haha! but once i hit 16 i just BURST with outgoing-ness haha! my senior year i ran for homecoming queen, AND prom queen!! *made the final 2 but lost:(* and that was my first year at that school! but honestly, nothings wrong with being yourself hun:) and as far as your insecurity *this is what i still do to this day* i take off all my clothes, and look in front of my mirror and i tell myself that i'm beautiful:) i picked something new that i loved about myself everyday until i felt completely secure with myself:) i hope this helps girly:))

What can I do so our relationship can be like it was in the beginning?

We dated for 3 months.. It bothered me badly that he never asked me out and so I started a few fights just because I was being insecure about the possibility that he was using me. Well those fights pushed him back. We went on vacation and he was going to ask me out then but decided not to. We had a fight on the way back because I was mad at myself for this being my fault. We went on a break for a week and since then only saw each other once.. It has been 2 weeks since we came back from vacation and he's been busy with work. (that's legit) I'm really missing the beginning when he used to come see me 3-4 times a week (he lives an hour away btw).. We also had an amazing connection and he always told me he knew I was the one for him which made me fall for him. Since our fights we both were pushed back and have lost some feelings. I've been acting weird cuz I want everything to be back to normal and I know it's going to take some work. During a fight he said he doesn't feel like he's chasing me and would like to.. So in these past 2 weeks I've been acting distant (by responding to texts right away, or ignoring phone calls for about an hour) idk if this is helping, it doesn't seem like it is and it seems like when I was myself he was more into me. What can I do so our relationship can be what it was like in the beginning?

What do you think of Harnesses("leashes") for toddlers?

Everytime I have saw a kid on a leash I thought it looked a little ridiculous but now I have a 14 month old son who loves to run but will not hold my hand. He is not bad behaved at all (nor does he understand that he can't go wherever he wants) because he is so young. The other day I was trying to do my banking and a complete stranger was calling him over and he was trying his best to get away from me. I Broke my back when I was younger so it is really hard for me to carry him everywhere and constantly bend over. He hates being confined in a stroller he loves to be independant and walk by himself. I am thinking of getting one of those harnesses that are a stuffed animal backpack. My sister thinks people will judge me and think I am irresponsible. I am obviously going to be watching my son the entire time and it's not so I can be lazy, I just think he will feel better having a little more independance and it will keep him safe. I wouldn't use it all the time, but we are going to marine land and I know he won't want to be in a stroller the whole time so maybe that would be good to let him walk around a little bit. What do you guys think? Does it look bad or what? I usually don't care what people think but I just want others opnions on this. It's not that I am lazy or can't control him, I just think it might work for both of us. Please don't be rude! Thanks! :)

At what point does one become a "Religious Kook"?

I suppose it depends on how disagreeable their form of worship is to you personally. Any other ideas?